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And So the Complex Had a "BBQ"

Pretty standard faire for the complex parties. Think they had Bud Light (geesh), Several wines, and the Piece d’Resistance, A Margarita Machine! Had a few of those, and a hot dog, and some brisket. Potato salad and pickles and onions. And I ate too much. And I drank too much. *laughs* No surprise there.

They also had give-a-ways and yours truly won a gift card worth $100.00. Nice. I hardly ever win anything.

Sat with a nice German guy, Georg. And a bodybuilding schoolteacher from Detroit *Yes, THAT Detroit who ran her mouth the entire time. Sammi. Gave me her number. Or we traded texts.

She was pretty well lit when she got there. Got some kind of issues going there. All she talked about was sex. Wanting it, having it. Just doing it. Might have been a hint. But not for me. Maybe for the German.

Might have been seeking some sort of affirmation that is was okay to think about sex all the time. Well I could affirm that. “But why do you give a fuck what anyone thinks? You are a forty year old grown ass beautiful woman. Do what you want! With whomever you want. But you are gonna run into haters, who will try to make you feel guilty over multiple partners.” I think she already had run into them. I said, “Fuck them! Who gives a shit what they think!

“And lo, look unto the field where I grow my fucks and see that it is barren…”


Frankly she sounded like a man talking bragging about all his conquests. Kinda sad really. Been my experience that people that talk about sex like that are usually not getting enough. If any. I thought she was there with the German, until her boyfriend showed up. Big, built Hispanic dude. He was drunk too. And didn’t hang around long.Think maybe he was intimidated by all the people there. I think she has a room-mate that is not him.

She was cute, I’ll give her that. About 5’1” and built like a brick shit house. I did give my new neighbors some insight as to what was available as far as eating and entertainment was around. Talked up my watering hole, so they’ll probably head over there at some point.

She kept trying to put me in some sort of box, or label me somehow. And I defy most labels I think. She finally settled on I’m a variation of “The Dude.” Because “I abide”, apparently. I think it was because she was drunk and I have long, somewhat unruly hair and a goatee. And I just don’t like labels.

They shut the party off at around seven-ish and the three of us sat around talking till about eight, when she spilled her last drink on herself. She said she was going to walk the German home and I let them get out first as I was not feeling real great at the moment. As I said, I ate too much.

I think I’ll just settle in here and either watch some TV, a movie or something, or plant myself on the couch and play some of my Skyrim character. Got a meeting with probation folks on Monday so I’m being good.

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kabuldur
Mar. 20th, 2016 10:39 am (UTC)
Good to see you're keeping out of trouble, T!

That lady...most women don't talk about sex...so she could have some people thinking that she was talking inappropriately. Men, on the other hand, might have got the wrong idea and thought she wanted sex with them, when she might not have. Can be quite dangerous for the woman doing all the talking...unless she DID want to pick up the German. Yes, she might not be getting any. Oh, and yes, she WILL be judged for having multiple partners, no doubt about that. Our society has such double standards.

Edited at 2016-03-20 10:40 am (UTC)
texasts
Mar. 20th, 2016 02:22 pm (UTC)
Hah! Well I am trying to stay out of trouble. Partially successful, I guess.

That lady - I guess they don't. I've been fortunate though. Most of mine seemed to have no problem with that. Did not expect it from a perfect stranger, but people don't seem to have problems talking to me... About just about anything. Empathy must roll off me in waves sometimes. Society suck. Men are venerated for multiple conquests (not the right word but...) while women are vilified. Really not fair.
kabuldur
Mar. 21st, 2016 09:09 am (UTC)
Ah, so you are another person people feel they can confide in? You must be a cool dude :)
texasts
Mar. 21st, 2016 03:10 pm (UTC)
Man, I dunno why that is. It just is.

As for the cool dude part? Man, I don't know about all that either.
kabuldur
Mar. 22nd, 2016 10:01 am (UTC)
Gyro was like that :) But he was FAR from harmless. I wolf in sheep's clothing, you might say :P
ellierachael
Mar. 25th, 2016 08:01 pm (UTC)
Yay for the giftcard :D
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